Below are all dialogue options which relate to building a romance with Cassandra. Choosing them will result in the highest chance of forming a relationship with her. To access all of these options, you will need to have made dialogue choices that prompt BCassandra’s approval. For a complete list of approval options, see Approval.

Initiate Romance¶

Upon speaking with Cassandra for the first time when you’re free to roam Haven…

“Did I do the right thing?“

• You’re impressive. - Slightly Approves

Cutscenes¶

Fight with Varric¶

“Cassandra: I am such a fool.“

• “I still like you.” - Slightly Approves

Swords & Shields¶

“Whatever you do, don’t tell Varric.“

• “I should read it.” – Slightly Approves

Writing¶

• “Love poetry, I assume?” - Slightly Approves

Inquisitor: “I was hoping we could speak privately.”

• Pursuing this line of dialogue allows you to commit to the relationship with Cassandra if she accepts.

“It needs to change. Perhaps I must be the one to change it.“

• “I like your determination.” - Approves

Prompted Dialogue¶

Investigate¶

“Not entirely. I’m just curious as to your motivation.“

• “I’d like us to be closer.” - Slightly Disapproves (Available only when approval rating is low)

“There’s… Not much to know.“

• “Such modesty!” - (Available only when approval rating is high)

“Yet I became the Right Hand, and they are forgotten.“

• “You’re delightful.” - Slightly Approves

“It is passion. It is being swept away by the pursuit of an ideal. What is not to like about that?“

• “I like that you like it.” - Slightly Approves